Q: What
is, how do I get into, how do I know if is optimum sexual state?
A: Its being HORNY, that's all.
Enough approaches to be able to RELAX during the conversation and you'll find you go into
it and maintain it just as easily as you can in your own home. MUCH has to be said of
experience in the field, you must not only persist with the women you approach, but
persist in your overall drive to make this work.
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Q: I am a virgin and have never experienced sexual
state, and have never seen what sexual state looks like from a woman, what can I do?
A: For one, if you are ABSOLUTELY
OBSESSED with losing your virginity, stop masturbating until you get horny enough to see
women as your only sexual outlet. For two, stop obsessing on this, you don't know what
you're missing, let it stay that way, focus efforts on building a better body, dressing
better, getting a place of your own, maybe making more money, or getting a fun job and
more interesting hobbies. Let it happen naturally and when it does savor the experience
and learn from it. I didn't approach and sex the first woman I ever had sex with, it came
easy and was a fun thing, not a labor I tried to get done.
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Q: You say what not to talk about, but what DO I
talk about? Or “why don't you add some verbal methods or scripts of things to say in
to your method?
A: I give a few basic questions
in the method, “are you from around here”, “what do you like to do for
fun” ect. This is all you really need. Once you get into the field you'll learn there
will be dead spots in any given conversation, it's the natural flow of things, the key
isn't to say the right thing but to persist in staying there, don't run away, ask the
basic questions I give you and wait for the conversation to get 2 sided , it's a learned
thing, not something you can be taught. Any given thing I give you to say is only gonna be
maybe accurate for 5% of all situations. Learn to socialize. A common theme of needing a
FAQ for a method, is that you aren't DOING and learning the traits of the method in the
field you are still asking questions. Get to it and “what do I say” will answer
itself.
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Q: Does the method only work in a club or on the
street or at parties?
A: No. I mostly always do the
method at department stores or malls, as women tend to be alone and not with friends there
most. BUT ANY sexual encounter MUST end with isolation of the woman with you and a sexual
state. This is natural mating logic that this must be the end results so its always the
“endgame” at least of any sexual encounter. At a club or bar, I will tend to
just lay back and watch for a woman making eye contact, or one who's alone to do anything.
I mostly use bars to have a good time and socialize. When I REALLY want a sexual partner I
go out in the daytime (noon to 3 is scientifically the time of day most sex occurs and
women are horniest) and look for a lone woman in a mall or dept store. I advise the same
for reasons to numerous to list, but if you understand the synergy between her liking sex,
your sexual state, persistence on a lone person being easier and how bars to tend to
increase a woman's expectations (though it's a lower class of men?) you'll see why this is
all so important.
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Q: How would you approach a group of women?
A: Outside of a bar I NEVER
would, as there isn't distractions for the friends. YOU will be the entire focus of the
encounter and isolation will be impossible because of her social conditioning. Persistence
will be knocked down 95% easier as well because of a group dynamic that makes her not
think of you and her and approval of her from you, but in terms of you, her and her
friends/family and THEIR approval.
At a bar or club, I would only
ever go in on a group if the target had given me strong eye contact or was separate from
her friends. GM or “grandmaster style” can be found on the mASF archives and I
have had success with it, but recommend staying away from bars and groups entirely unless
it is for a fun night out.
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Q: Why don't you add in some group approach
methods? Isn't your method flawed for not being able to be used on groups?
A: Ive approached groups, ive
gotten a target out of a group and sexed her. But why use this as a staple? I want a
simple easy method to get the women I desire in bed, not a complex hard to remember method
that yields “just a bit more”. KISS, keep it simple stupid, is how I frame it. I
get far better results and a far better sex life with FAR better quality of women by going
for lone women . I see no reason to make something up or advocate something that I don't
use myself in my sex life with any frequency.
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Q: What quality, type, kind, caliber, scale of
women do you get?
A: Whites, blacks, Hispanics,
welfare moms, bank managers, nurses, 5'3s, 6'1s, some big tits, some smallish tits,
usually wearing revealing clothes of some kind, some live with parents, some own their own
home, 19 year old, 37 year old, some stupid, some political, some into computers, some
into smoking pot. I've slept with maybe 120-150 women of all types. As of using this
method id say most of my women to be 8-10s on a standard guys looks scale, white, 19-25
yrs old, middle class for the area, all different intelligence levels and personality
types . I would say they are all 10s to me for whatever kind of way they turn me on so
much that I approach them.
I find that those most
preoccupied with “10s” and such usually don't get them in bed, as they don't
realize the basic human sexuality of these women and share theirs with them and vice
versa. Most men who see these “10s” as something other than just a woman who
looks different also will not persist to get her isolated and run away from an approach at
the first hint of rejection. A “10” has her pick of men, she's had plenty of
good looking guys, but probably doesn't even get eye contact from most of the scared men
she meets. Surely she doesn't get many a special man who isn't scared so much so, that he
will blast through her conditioning and persist with her. She isn't used to having to say
“NO” to a man, because most men take her beauty as a “NO” before they
ever get started.
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Q: There's this girl or this situation what would
you do/ how do I apply the method to this that or the other deal?
A: You are overcomplicating
things, stop this. My method is about procuring a great sex life, not the seduction of
specific women or specific venues. The easiest venues and most desirable targets are the
concern. Frequent sex with the women you choose is the goal of my method, not specific
women who may have some perceived special trait or ideal you may want. SHALLOW is the name
of the game. At least at first til you get VERY good, you'll want to focus on a good sex
life, not specifics and situations of complex nature. LOOK for LOOKS, satisfy that, not
desires for specific women. Sew your oats first, then when a specific target comes up that
may seem difficult over analysis won't be a such a problem.
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Q: Any last minute suggestions for this/that/other
situation?
A: Its not tomorrow that counts,
it's the rest of your sex life that does. The best you can do is have the basic 3-5
sentences I talk about at the end of my method, and as much field experience as possible
for any given situation. No specific will ever correct another specific when dealing with
the complexity of human mating. If you look your best and do the basic 3-5 sentences
depending on your skill level, it's the best you can really do.
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Q: What should I say when I call a woman?
A: “see I told you id call
if we had sex”, “I had a great time the other night we should meet up and do it
again”. Get my drift? Don't call women, don't go for phone numbers, ALWAYS get as far
as you can with any given woman you approach or get a firm “FUCK OFF” from her.
If for some reason you end up with a number, not as an excuse to not be told no repeatedly
made by you in order to eject from the pick up mind you, call her whenever you feel like
it and arrange a meeting, leaving her your number. Don't call again, go find another woman
to persist to isolation with not get her phone number.
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Q: How can I seduce a woman online?
A: I dunno, go read somebody
else's shit. Online is a waste of time, there's 200 women walking around your city right
now that youd like to fuck, who would fuck you, stop with the geekery, unless its for
practice of conversation.
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Q: What do you think of speed seduction, mystery
method, double your dating, juggler method, advanced macking ect ect.
A: These systems of seduction all
have a place. They are good for an edge but are not the staples of a healthy sex life. As
a metaphor I see these systems as advanced martial arts training. My stuff is like boxing,
with a crash course in grappling on the ground, for just in case. You wanna know it all
and be the best, then study every art. Yeah to beat the best fighters in the world you
need to know how to block and throw kicks, advanced submission holds, joint locks and
chokes. The thing is, the metaphor breaks down when it comes to fighting a top flight
fighter vs a difficult pick up of a woman. There is no need to be the best pick up artist
in the world or even one of the best when it comes to your sex life, as the most difficult
you'll ever face aren't the hottest women, or the smartest, or coolest, they are just run
of the mill pains in the ass, frigid women, lesbians you'd have to convert, virgins who
are scared of sex ect ect nauseating in my opinion.
Yeah you wanna be able to fight
more than one chick at a time? Study mystery method. You wanna be able to grapple with the
unusual types or even over kill it with the rest at a mental level? Study some juggler
method or maybe some Speed seduction. You want to be able to deceive your opponent from
the start and break em down over time with kicks at a safe distance from harm? Maybe do
some double your dating stuff.
You wanna just be able do better
than you ever could without the method and learn in the quickest amount of time, with the
least money spent so you can get out in the field and learn the ins and out, without
having to master anything? Then do Gunwitch method. I teach ya to throw a punch, take a
punch, fight with persistence and will and only fight the fights you aren't outnumbered
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